Union Bridge COB, Union Bridge, Maryland, Mid-Atlantic District James Benedict, Pastor Sermon for Sunday, Sermon for Sunday, March 8, 1998 - Genesis 15:1-12;17-18 "COUNT THE STARS" We don't usually think of the world of professional ice hockey as a place to turn for wisdom or life lessons, but today I'd like to quote the all time scoring leader in National Hockey League history and recommend you tuck this tidbit away for frequent future reference. File it under, "Missed Opportunities." Wayne Gretzky, a.k.a. "The Great One," was telling the truth about more than ice hockey when he said, "You miss 100% of the shots you never take." I'm convinced that most of us feel defeated in life not because of the shots we've taken and missed but because of the shots we haven't taken. We haven't tried and failed; we've failed to try. We haven't given ourselves an opportunity to score. We've been too timid. We've been willing to settle for less, instead of stepping forward to take a shot at living an extraordinary life. Well, this morning I'm going to take a shot at trying to convince you that you don't have to go through life feeling defeated and that you don't have to settle for a less-than-extraordinary life. I'm going to try to show you that what God has in mind for each of us is far more magnificent than anything we could imagine on our own. I'm going to talk about how every one of us can seek and claim our own unique spot in the universe and do things that will make a difference for us and for others for eternity. But first, I'm going to talk about what holds us back. What keeps us from trying, from taking our shot? Sometimes it is our fear of failure, but that is foolishness. Why be afraid of failure? Failure is the prelude to most of life's significant successes. Our failures point us in the direction of success. People who aren't failing frequently aren't trying often enough. Failure is nothing to be afraid of. What else holds us back? Sometimes it is just a lack of imagination. I love the story about the two elderly friends Mabel and Joe both widowed and living in a retirement community. His hearing is not so good, and she doesn't get around so well, but every day they get together and talk. They eat lunch together. They really enjoy each other's company. After a while, it occurs to Joe that their friendship could be something more. So one day at lunch he says to Mabel, "Mabel, wouldn't it be nice if the two of us could be married?" And Mabel says, "That would be wonderful. But considering our age and condition, who do suppose would have us?" A lack of imagination, wouldn't you say? In the fifteenth chapter of Genesis, it is a lack of imagination that almost holds Abraham back from the extraordinary life God has planned for and promised him. Abraham has already left his family and homeland to follow God's leading, and Abraham has already experienced God's power in the form of protection along the way. At the very outset of the journey, however, God made some amazing promises to Abraham and now Abraham has begun to doubt that these promises will ever be fulfilled. Among other things, God promised Abraham descendants, but Abraham and his wife Sarah have no children. Now they are old, past the typical child bearing years. Abraham is disappointed, you can tell, and who can blame him? Abraham complains and states what he takes to be the simple fact of the matter: he will have no natural descendants; Eliezer of Damascus, Abraham's chief servant, will be his heir. Abraham imagines that Eliezer a slave, not a son is the only one who can carry forward his heritage. But Abraham's imagination is too feeble. God has other plans. Abraham may be ready to settle for Eliezer, but God is not. God invites Abraham out of his tent and orders him to look at the night sky. "Count the stars," God says. "So shall your descendants be." God reawakened Abraham's imagination by repeating the promise. Then Abraham's response is described in words that have echoed down the centuries. The scripture says, "And (Abraham) believed the Lord; and the Lord reckoned it to him as righteousness." Abraham trusted God, and on the basis of that trust was empowered to fulfill his destiny. The reason these words have echoed down the centuries is because they describe how every one of us can be empowered to fulfill our destiny. In this one short verse is the key, the difference between an ordinary life and an extraordinary life. Abraham trusted God, and acting upon that trust, saw God's dream for him come true. And each of us can do the same: we can trust God, act upon that trust, and see God's dream for us come true. Our faith in God can give us the courage to take our shot, to dare to be what we've been called and gifted to be. Now I must be careful not to be misunderstood. I'm not saying that faith in God will ensure success at whatever we try. That is "positive thinking," and I don't believe in "positive thinking." "Positive thinking" says that God wants us to have what we think we want to have. It says, "Bring your dreams to God and He will bless them." I don't believe that. I think most people who approach life and faith that way are likely to be very disappointed. Christian author Joan Webb has helped me understand this. In her book, Meditations for Christians Who Try to Be Perfect, she writes about her own experience. She says, "Years ago, after I asked God to fill my cup, it seemed, instead, that he ate my lunch. As I saw my dreams fade away, I worked harder to hold on and eventually burned out. I wondered where God was and why he let it happen. Now, as I reflect back, I wonder if he could not fill my cup because I already had it full with my personal agenda. I wanted to accomplish great things, but I had my own ideas. Perhaps God was waiting for me to empty the unusable contents so he could pour in his plan." The extraordinary life that awaits all of us is not necessarily the one we have in mind for ourselves. Faith is not asking God to bless our plans. Faith is consenting to God's plan. Faith is making God's dreams our dreams. Then we will be filled with courage. Then we will be empowered. Then we will see the dreams come true. "Many descendants" was not just Abraham's dream for himself, it was also God's dream for Abraham. It was part of God's plan for reaching and redeeming the world. Every successful man and woman in scripture has found their place in that plan. And so can we. There is not one person in this room incapable of living an extraordinary life for God. There is not one person here today for whom God has not promised and prepared a full and satisfying life. But too often we are willing to accept less. We are willing to settle for "Eliezer," because we fear failure or our imaginations are weak. Before we can take our place and play our part in God's plan, we have to believe, like Abraham. We have to trust God. We have to trust God enough to set our imaginations free, and dream bigger dreams God's dreams. And we have to trust God enough to try, to act on our faith in accord with the promises made. Soren Kierkegaard, a Danish theologian and philosopher, used to tell a sad parable about a community of ducks waddling off to duck church to hear the duck preacher. The duck preacher spoke eloquently of how God had given the ducks wings with which to fly. With these wings, there was nowhere the ducks couldn't go, there was no God-given task the ducks could not accomplish. With those wings they could soar into the presence of God himself. Shouts of "Amen!" were quacked throughout the duck congregation. At the conclusion of the service, the ducks left, commenting on what a wonderful message they had heard. And then they waddled back home. I guess what I'm trying to say is that the only faith that counts is faith that makes you willing to "flap your wings," faith that makes you willing to try. What a shame it is when we who were made to soar through the heavens are content to waddle through life. No wonder we feel depressed, discouraged and defeated. But it doesn't have to be that way. We don't have to waddle. We don't have to settle for "Eliezer." We can discover and claim God's dreams for us. We can have faith, like Abraham's, that makes us willing to press forward, and to keep trying. We can find our place in God's plan and live extraordinary lives. If you're not sure what God wants you to do, or what special role God has for you to play, make it your number one priority to find out. That's where true happiness is waiting for you. And if you know or even think you know give it a try. Don't be afraid to fail. Trust God. Take your shot. Spread your wings, and fly. Amen.