(This text was submitted prior to Annual Conference) Annual Conference 1999 Friday evening, July 02, 1999 Milwakee, Wisconsin Tonight's message is being delivered by Linetta Alley and Cindy Laprade, co-winners of the 1998 National Youth Conference Speech Contest. Living in Community by Linetta Alley, student at Bridgewater College The event took place in a room very similar to this one. The walls and floors were made out of concrete, and rows and rows of chairs made rings around the room. Most of those chairs were filled with people, almost 1500 more than this evening. Instead of all of the gold chairs there in the middle, 1000 or so youth were sitting on the pillows they had made themselves. Oh, and yes, here I was, standing at the microphone behind the podium! That morning last summer at NYC (National Youth Conference), when Cindy and I had the opportunity to share some of our thoughts with the over 4000 youth gathered there, is a special memory for me. Even more so, however, is that entire conference, and even more than that is the way being at that conference felt. It was so amazing to come together with all of those people who had gathered to praise and worship, learn and serve, and yes, HAVE FUN! It was amazing to feel as though all of those people were my brothers and sisters, even when I didn't know close to 1/4 of them. It was amazing to feel a part of a community of faith so far away from my home and church. I guess I really shouldn't have been surprised. Especially after all of the years that I had attended Annual Conference as part of our family vacation each summer. We were even here nine years ago, and if we're remembering correctly, I spoke to you at that Conference as well, as the narrator for the Saturday evening children's program. I've always loved Annual Conference, and I still do! I love the singing! I love the worship services! I love the exhibit hall! I loved the childcare and children's activities! I loved the Jr. high and Sr. high programs! And so far this year I've loved the Young Adult activities! Now I've never sat through too many of the business sessions, but the General Board Live Report is always great, and I can't imagine that the meetings are TOO bad! But the thing that I really love about conference isn't the programs, it's the people. More that anything else I love meeting back up with the friends that I made in the sandboxes of childcare, at workcamps, at district and national activities, and at church camp. Conference was, and is, the time that I am able to see the church and feel surrounded by this community of believers. One of my closest friends is someone that a don't ever really remember meeting. She was just always there at Annual Conference, just like me each summer. We'd hang out together all week, bid our tearful good-byes, and pick everything back up where we left off the next summer. In Jr. high and Sr. high we made it a point to try to attend the same workcamps during the summer and at one of those we talked about how being with that group of 20-30 people just felt "right" and we wanted to stay there forever. But is community, and more importantly Christian community, only a feeling of acceptance, a sense of being with other like-minded people, a hug at the door and a happy hello? I've come to believe that true community is more than that. Besides attending Annual Conference, each summer also usually included a week or two at church camp, mainly Brethren Woods in VA. It was being a part of those family groups that really was the basis of my education in community. I learned that it's hard to get along with everybody and remember that they are just as important as you. And it's not easy trying to make everyone work together when a job needs to get done. Now that I have changed roles and become a counselor at Brethren Woods I'm beginning to realize that the community building process wasn't a coincidence. It was a process that took time and energy from both the staff leaders and the campers before the tight knit communities became a reality. True community is an intentional process of transformation which must be shaped and formed by leaders, us. As members of society we are surrounded by communities. Each of us lives in a housing community, is involved in a church community, and for those of us who are students or teachers, we participate in an educational community. But what is Christian community, and what sets it apart from those other communities we are a part of? Communities are people who are united by a common vision or focus, something that pulls them together and centers their togetherness. For Christians that focus is not just the figure of Christ himself, but it's the love that Christ has shown to us through his sacrifice for us. Christian community provides a place for us to honor and glorify God by serving one another and sharing God's love with others through the use of our God-given gifts. Paul talks extensively in Romans, 1 Corinthians, and Ephesians about the Body of Christ and how it is made up of many members. In tonight's scripture, he reminds us that "If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him do it diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully." Here Paul outlines some of the many tasks which need to be a part of Christian community, tasks which involve different skills, and although he chooses to use the masculine, jobs which both men and women can work at accomplishing. In the more familiar passage in 1 Corinthians, Paul discusses the danger of one body part fishing that they were another and finding their place unimportant in relation to some of the others. It seemed to me for many years that Paul was saying that without all of the body members the body would be unable to function and fall apart. However, do we not see people everyday who are unable to use one of their senses or a body part? These people are able to compensate for their non-functioning body part by using other parts of the body for the same task. Those who are blind use their sense of feeling and hearing to "see", hearing impaired persons depend more heavily on their eyes and the use of sign language to communicate, and those who are unable to walk use their hands to push themselves in wheelchairs. Even with their apparent handicaps or disabilities, they are able to live meaningful lives. But in the Body of Christ it doesn't always work out so well. If several members of the body stop contributing or even leave the body it's not that the whole body stops functioning. Instead, other parts of the body, as in the illustration, have to pick up their jobs too, working harder for the body to continue at its usual capacity. However, with added responsibilities taking up their time and energy, they can no longer perform their original role to the fullest. For example, if the pastor is also required to teach Sunday School, direct the choir, and plan youth group activities, he or she will probably not be able to prepare as well for worship, nor have as much time for visitation and other pastoral responsibilities. If a Sunday School teacher also had to plan fellowship meals, class activities, and take care of the class treasury, he may not be able to plan as well for using his gift of teaching on Sunday morning. The reason that Paul highlights the importance of each part of the body is not solely because each job needs to get done, but because by each part doing their job to the fullest, it allows those other parts of the body to accomplish their roles. By all of us effectively performing our role, we allow others to be able to focus on their job, thus allowing the body, the community, to function in the best possible way. Most of us have been familiar with Paul's illustration of the church as a body since we were young, and we understand the importance of living as a Body of Christ, yet we continue to see members of our home church communities who stop participating, or even attending, eventually dropping their membership. Each time that happens the God-given gifts that those persons have to contribute are lost. Are we as a church willing for that to happen? Are we willing to lose someone's gift of music because they prefer a different style than the church is used to? Are we willing to lose someone's gift of service because we don't support the need they see? Are we willing to deny someone's message from God because it's not what we want to hear? The church needs to decide, here and now, whether it can withstand losing the gifts of thousands of children, youth, young adults, middle-aged adults, and older adults because their gifts don't fit our program. It is essential that we as a Christian community appreciate and support the gifts of the members and allow them to be used so that God's work may be accomplished here on earth. And it is the responsibility of the individual members to respond willingly when God calls us to action through the church. So what is a leader's role, our role, in the Body of Christ? A leader needs to acknowledge that he or she is a member of the community, not the focus of it. Leaders need to work at their role of leading, directing and focusing the group, and allow the other community members to step up to work at their roles. Unlike the common assumption that leaders need to do everything, true leadership is a matter of acknowledging that one person can not, and should not, do it all. God has distributed gifts throughout the church so that many can share in his work. Above all, the overbearing, bossy, superior attitudes of many world and church leaders is not the way of those who truly follow Christ. As Luke 22:25-26 reads: "Jesus said to them (the disciples), 'The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them; and those who exercise authority over them call themselves Benefactors. But you are not to be like that. Instead, the greatest among you should be like the youngest, and the one who rules like the one who serves.'" Jesus calls us to servant leadership in which all the members of the community are servants to each other, where we use our gifts to build up the body and aid the others around us. True Christian community is accomplished when we understand that we are here to serve God by serving each other. And the leader's role is to model this by attempting to understand how the various gifts and parts of the body work together, by calling out the gifts of the members, and by creating an environment where those gifts can be used. Brothers and sisters, Christian community does not come easily. It takes time and energy to develop a vision and a focus, and to spend time in shared experiences. However, the rewards of our work in the formation of a place where we can use our gifts and talents within the body of Christ, where we can call out and support the gifts of others, and where we can continue to serve God by serving those around us, are well worth the cost. So let's keep the conferences and camps going, let's keep on passing out hugs and hellos, and let's continue to build community using the gifts and talents that Christ has given, remembering that each community we are a part of is really only one piece of a much wider community that is being shaped and molded by Christ himself.